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Fun Self Care Ideas for Valentine’s Day



Valentine’s Day is upon us, and it’s all about showing our love for the people closest to us. But especially for caregivers of people with intellectual or developmental disabilities (IDDs), this is something you already do all year round. This year, why not also show yourself some love by taking time for self care? Here are some fun and rejuvenating Valentine’s Day self care ideas:


  • Create a personal care package. Indulge in self-love by assembling a care package filled with your favorite items. This could include treats like dark chocolate, herbal tea, or essential oils that provide a sensory boost and relaxation​​.

  • Dine out or cook a special meal. Treat yourself to a delicious meal. Dining out can be a celebratory experience that shakes up your routine. Alternatively, cooking a special meal at home can be equally satisfying and more personal​​.

  • Reconnect with friends. Valentine's Day doesn't have to be about romantic love. Plan a fun evening with friends, either going out or staying in. This could involve cooking together, having brunch, sharing stories, or simply enjoying each other's company in a relaxed setting​​​​.


  • Unplug from digital distractions. Take a break from social media and digital noise. Temporarily disconnecting from online platforms can provide a much-needed respite, helping you focus on personal well-being and mindfulness​​​​.

  • Take time for self-reflection, giving yourself credit, and gratitude. Engage in activities that promote self-reflection. Make a list of things you love about yourself and things you're grateful for. This practice can enhance your mood, boost your self-esteem​​​​, and even start an incredibly beneficial new habit of being kinder to yourself.


  • Create a home spa experience. Create a spa-like atmosphere at home. This could involve a relaxing bubble bath, face masks, and candles. It's a great way to indulge in some physical and mental relaxation​​​​.

  • Get back into those put-off hobbies. Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to spend time on hobbies you love or explore new interests. This could be anything from crafting to outdoor activities, and it offers a vital opportunity to relax, engage in fulfilling activities, and reacquaint you with your identity outside of caregiving.

  • Practice mindfulness and meditation. Using apps for guided mindfulness and meditation can significantly reduce stress and enhance your overall well-being​​.


  • Dress for yourself. Wearing something you love and feel confident in can really elevate your mood. Whether it's a comfy jeans-and-hoodie combo or your favorite LBD, choose attire that makes you feel fantastic​​.


  • Give yourself a treat. Finally, don't hesitate to treat yourself to something special, whether it's flowers, chocolates, or a piece of jewelry. It's a wonderful way to show yourself appreciation for all the hard work you do as a caregiver​​.


Remember, self-care is not selfish; it's essential. Taking time to focus on your own needs can rejuvenate you, making you not just happier, but a more effective caregiver.


Show Yourself Some Love With Progressive Lifestyles

Progressive Lifestyles, Inc. is dedicated to providing innovative support services for people with disabilities. Our mission is to provide supportive and caring residential opportunities for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities throughout Oakland County, Michigan, as well as resources for caregivers.


A primary focus of our organization is to interact with the individuals we support through the “Culture of Gentleness” model. We seek to create a positive environment to help them feel safe and valued while maximizing praise, limiting demands, maintaining consistent structure, and reducing stress during transitions. Contact us to learn more about how we can support your special needs family today!


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